{"id":241,"date":"2010-10-22T16:59:36","date_gmt":"2010-10-22T23:59:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bingeeatingtherapy.com\/?p=241"},"modified":"2024-02-14T23:32:19","modified_gmt":"2024-02-15T07:32:19","slug":"friday-qa-if-i-cant-diet-how-can-i-lose-weight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bingeeatingtherapy.com\/friday-qa-if-i-cant-diet-how-can-i-lose-weight\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday Q&A- If I Can’t Diet, How Can I Lose Weight?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"how<\/a>Question:<\/p>\n

Submitted via email by Jen in Glasgow, KY<\/p>\n

On your site, you say that dieting is a bad thing. But what about those of us who actually have weight that they need to lose? How the **** am I supposed to lose weight without dieting?<\/p>\n

Answer:<\/p>\n

Hi Jen,<\/p>\n

I understand why you are confused. On one hand, the whole world is encouraging all different kinds of diets, yet a small contingent are telling you not to diet. My question is, how do you know that you need <\/em>to lose weight? Is it because you believe that you weigh too much as, or is it because you feel that your weight is negatively impacting your health or your quality of life?\u00a0 These are questions to think about.\u00a0 I think it’s important to reframe the concept of dieting to lose weight to the idea of going toward health to improve your quality of life. Your body is your most valuable possession and therefore it deserves to be cared for impeccably. This doesn’t mean spending hours each day at the gym and polishing your muscles and kissing your biceps in the mirror. This does not mean spending money on plastic surgery or botox or liposuction desperately trying to change what you have. This is about embracing what you already and\u00a0 have and taking really good care of it.\u00a0 It’s like, if somehow you had possession of an original Picasso, would you paint over it to make it look like an Andy Warhol?\u00a0 Or would you make sure to get it insured, keep it out of sunlight, store it in a climate controlled environment, and really truly allow yourself to enjoy it?\u00a0 Taking care of it will keep it beautiful for a very long time, despite how much it ages. In fact, age enhances its beauty. It’s the same thing with your body.\u00a0 Rather than trying to change it into something different, rather than disliking it the way it currently is, let yourself love it, no matter what size and shape it is. Your body deserves love no matter what it looks like. It’s your body, the only one you got. So take care of it. Feed it healthy food, don’t feed it too much and don’t feed it too little. Give it healthy amounts of fruits and vegetables and limit the amount of processed foods that you put in it. Exercise it, stretch it, wash it, floss your teeth, drink your water, be kind to it, rest it, give it adequate amounts of sleep, take it outdoors to get fresh air and sunlight, bring it into nature, be grateful to it for whatever it gives to you, limit alcohol, tobacco, diet sodas, and other “foods” made with chemicals, but don’t freak out if you eat them every once in a while, relax your mind, listen to music, dance, be kind to yourself and to others.\u00a0 Rather than going on a diet and actively trying to lose weight, go toward health. When you do, you will find more peace and happiness than you will when you are actively looking for it from a scale.\u00a0 When you take care of your body and your mind in a deliberate and loving way, you will find that your body weight naturally finds its right place. This isn’t a diet, this is thinking about the rest of your life and your body in a positive way. Strengthening it for the long haul!<\/p>\n

So, in a nutshell, my answer is, try not to focus on the weight loss, it’s hard to focus on losing something. Change your focus to health, it’s much easier to gain something, in this case being health and well being.<\/p>\n

Be Well,<\/p>\n

Leora<\/p>\n

Do you have a question about binge eating, bulimia, anorexia, or anything associated with eating disorders? Send an email to <\/em><\/strong>bingeeatingtherapy at gmail dot com. <\/em><\/strong>All questions will be kept confidential. Include your first name or the name you want to be referred to as and your location. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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